don't call it a midlife crisis

but then what the hell is it

Welcome to episode 2 of exploring like, what the fuck is happening to us 30- and 40-something ladies and why does it have to be such a big deal. I started this last week just wanting to celebrate my new ear piercing and discovered there is so much to say about a so-called midlife crisis, doing what we want, not giving a shit what other people think, and how it just sort of coincides to A Certain Age but not necessarily! Last week was the piercing story and an anecdote from Lisa, who recently decided to say eff it and do something fun with her hair.

If you have a similar story of fuck-it-ness (hair? tats? moving to Germany? divorce? affair with a pool boy? are we still calling them pool boys?) to share about yourself or a friend, submit it right here.